Inspired by michaela I want to share with you my point of view on vanity, which is actually not bad at all 😉
Let’s start with the question “Am I a vain person?”. I must say yes, but well- not like that:
but very much like someone, who wants to be liked by others. And that’s really pretty everyone, to be liked and accepted is one essential human need. In Wikipedia you’ll find, that “vanity is the excessive belief in one’s own abilities or attractiveness to others”- I think that wanting to be attractive to others, but not necessary or not only in a physical and excessive way is one really good quality or goal.
Is is important to follow your ideal-self and just to try to improve the things, that YOU don’t like, not the things, that the others don’t like. Because it’s good to want others to like you, but only for what you are, not for what you aren’t but you think, that others want you to be.
Having your own personality and being liked for it- thumbs up!
Not having a personality and adjusting you to the wishes of others- thumbs down!
That’s from me, what do you think?
ps. clothes are just one way to express your personality, so I don’t think I should give more attention to the issue 😉