Recently Helen told me that it’s better to forgive and forget than hate. I agree with her, but she got me thinking. How does it works?
I think, that we need to forgive first, so that we can forget after that. You can not forget something you haven’t forgiven, at least I can’t. May be some people forgive when they forget something, may be that’s how the “time heals everything” works. But I think that it’s not really forgotten, it’s just faded away then.
It’s funny what Google thinks about it:
2.160.000 for forgive and forget
7.710.000 for forget and forgive
Hm? What do you think?