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Archive for April, 2010
Today I’ve lent a T-shirt to a girl in my gym that I don’t know and she was soo happy 🙂 She was just searching her bag for a T-shirt and couldn’t find one, I’ve got a spare T-shirt, so I’ve said “Hey, wanna have my spare T-shirt?”. She was so surprised and happy, I’ve never seen her before and she was obviously really bumped by me wanting to help her out…
I love it when people get so exited and happy about little kind gestures. Otherwise it gets me thinking, are kind gestures that rare, so that people are so happy when they see one???
I’ve always loved that quote by Oscar Wilde: “I can resist everything except temptation”
It’s just true, at least for me, or at least in the way that I comprehend it. For me it’s really simple: Why should I resist a temptation? Is temptation bad? Is it wrong? Should I fight temptation? Am I bad person if I don’t resist it? Am I a good person if I do resist it? Don’t know and NO, no, no, no, no, NO!
So, Ashwin has started it and I’m playing along now.
1. I’m unorganized. I have my own order, that seems messy for some people, but I love it, because it’s flexible and changes all the time. That leads us to –>
2. I love change. I don’t know if change is the purpose of life, but it is somehow to me. Change doesn’t necessarily means development, but I know for sure that change is required in order to achieve some development. That leads us to –>
3. I’m under construction, not only my blog. I may have a great personality already and I’ve kind of always had, but I hope that it’ll never be finished, that would be sad.
Sweet Kristin told me, that I’m intelligent. I enjoy that little compliment (10x Kristin), but it just got me thinking about what did I enjoy about it and what does intelligent means after all?
What could look intelligent on that blog, written in poor English and representing nothing but some random, spontaneous thoughts? Do you think I’m intelligent? Do you think you’re intelligent? What do you think that intelligent means?
There are a bunch of theories of intelligence and I don’t want to bother you with them, because they can’t give you an answer to these questions. You need to define it for yourself. So do I.
So for me intelligence is really simple, it’s about being open-minded, getting along and having some kind of concept of the world around you. Of course creativity will be well received too:
I don’t really care what a test would tell me about it, but I still enjoy such little nice compliments and I’m glad when I score good in a test. Why? Because I think of me as of an intelligent person and I enjoy an occasional compliment, because that means to me that my self-perception is not so deluded and that others see me at least a little bit like I see myself. What about you?
“Mercury in Scorpio
She is extremely observant and astute, always reading between the lines and looking for the real meaning behind things. Passionate in speech, excellent at strategy. Natural psychologist.”
Yeah… And right now I’m sitting on the data for my BSc thesis and it looks pretty good, o yeah, who’ll be a psychologist in 5 years, ha? :D:D:D
It’s one of the best music videos ever! “Your heart is too big.” … so sad and still she keeps carrying her heart and hoping, soooo beautiful 🙂
I really like that movie. I know that it’s old and you’ve probably seen it, but I think that it’s always worth asking you the question. Would you do it?
It’s a funny thing – after a long, serious relationship the best thing you can do is sport, learning, writing, reading, going out etc. But the only thing you do is lying in your bed, unable to sleep and just starring at some stupid point in the ceiling, possibly listening to some depressive music. So you feel bad, flabby, gloomy, nerveless, mopish etc. And that’s how depression works. I hope it’ll change soon.
PS. It’s a good thing that I’ve got out of bed to write this, still something 😀