Posts Tagged ‘feelings’

I feel something you don’t feel…

November 4, 2013

Often enough I get into discussions about this “border”, where something becomes “weird”. Mostly I have to explain myself:

“how come you don’t think this is weird, do you find this normal, would you also do it that way?!?”

and I’m like

“well, no, this may not be “my way”, but I can imagine, that some people could find that not “weird”, but just “their way”” or vice versa.

So after a while I get a:

“OK, it really could be that this other person finds this not weird, but it’s still strange, that he doesn’t find it weird, isn’t it?”

grrrr…

I find it really interesting, that it is hard for many people to imagine how other people feel about things and that it could be really different as the way they feel about the same things. This is actually kind of the foundation of our society – we all strive for individualism and want to be unique and special. And we are. Exactly because the things I feel and think are not the exact same things as you feel and think. Yes, there is some common ground – both can be categorizes as feelings and thoughts. ย For anything further you have to know a person really good and share some values and traits. So usually we peer up with people with similar interests, feelings and thoughts, because it’s only easier. But that doesn’t mean that other people don’t exist – they do! And they probably think you’re weird…

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I don’t feel like blogging…

October 8, 2010

…so I don’t blog (um… except for now?). That’s for the very few people who may be wondering why there were so few posts lately. I’m not apologizing or something, I’m not sorry, I’m just explaining myself probably to just myself, as always, because I feel like it ๐Ÿ™‚

I feel like buying a lots of chips, meat (maybe it’s time for another vegan period?) and sweets from the new shop right next to my block. I feel like reading job offers and instead of sending resumes thinking with hours about which picture I should use. I feel like not calling all the people, who remembered that I was here after they found out that I’m leaving. I feel like not packing my stuff. I feel like throwing everything in the trashcan until my stuff doesn’t take more than two bags. I feel like going somewhere else. I feel like not going to a party. I feel like talking to someone new. I feel like cleaning up my friends-list.ย  I feel like making (mental)drafts.

I feel – so everything’s good ๐Ÿ™‚

About… HATE

March 24, 2010

OMG, hate… Hate is such a useless feeling, not constructive in any way and just pointless (I’m talking about “regular” hate, not hate in case of war, killing, death etc.). And still, when somebody does something really bad and mean, really, really bad to you, what would you do? Hate him?

What’s the point? What would your hate change? Would you feel better? Would the hated person regrets what he has done?

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